All Grown Up

Today, the daughter of some very dear friends of mine turns 18. Thinking back to the day of her birth, it seems barely possible to believe she’s now an adult. That hot July day back in 1996 feels like it was a couple of years ago at the most. But then again, I look at my own kids, with another school year all but under their belts, and I realise they aren’t so very far from that landmark either.

Richard Linklater’s film, Boyhood, has been a gargantuan project. Filmed over the course of some 12 years, it tells the story of an ordinary boy, Mason Evans, as he grows from the age of six to adulthood. Nothing really huge happens. The family moves to Texas, Mason’s mum goes back to college then finds work as a lecturer. She remarries and divorces twice and we see Mason experience the variable geometry of modern family life as step-dads and step brothers and sisters come and go. The constants remain his mum, his sister and above all his dad, Mason Sr, played by Ethan Hawke, who although no longer living with the rest of the family, is a constant loving presence in Mason’s life.

Boyhood - film posterInstead of a story in the traditional sense, the film presents an incredibly intimate portrait of contemporary American life unfolding in real time. It’s fascinating to see Mason, played by Ellar Coltrane, change over time, not just physically, but in his understanding of the world, his preoccupations, and growing emotional maturity until he reaches the point when he’s ready to step out into the world alone.

Initial experiments with girls lead to first real love, and first real heart-break. A fractious relationship with his sister grows into friendship. A clash with a teacher forces a new attitude to school and leads ultimately to success and a possible future career as a photographer.

Ellar Coltrane in 2013

Ellar Coltrane in 2013

The whole thing is edited seamlessly so that, as in life, the viewer barely notices the passing of time; the characters gradually change and age, grow, gain weight, turn grey and yet are essentially the same. For all its ups and downs, Mason’s family is loving and strong. At the end of the film, we are left with a moving portrait of an overwhelmingly decent young man, both completely unique and utterly ordinary, as he stands on the threshold of adulthood.

What’s ordinary reality for Mason, is the stuff of fantasy for the kids in The Golden Dream (La Jaula de Oro), Diego Quemada-Diez’s film about impoverished Guatemalan youngsters trying to make their way to the US. For the three protagonists, the US is an idealised land of the imagination where they cannot help but grow rich and happy.

La Jaula de Oro poster

Canny, adaptable and single-minded in their determination to reach their destination, they are nevertheless no match for the cynical adults that prey on them, exploiting them to harvest sugar cane or smuggle drugs and stealing even their shoes. One of the kids is a girl, but despite efforts to pass as boy, she’s hauled off by gangsters with the suggestion she’ll be forced into prostitution. When the remaining pair finally make it to the US, one is promptly shot dead by vigilantes and the other ends up working for peanuts in a stinking meat-processing factory. All the hopes and dreams of the three kids, all their energy and imagination are crushed with absolute ruthlessness. 

Where Boyhood leaves the audience with a feeling of optimism, The Golden Dream has the opposite effect.  Seeing both films in the same week I couldn’t help but be struck by the vast disparity in the lives and opportunities available to children whose destinies are decided by which side of a border they happen to be born on.



Filed under Family, Film, Friends, Screenwriting, Stories

5 responses to “All Grown Up

  1. Thanks – yes they both were. Or at least I thought so!

  2. Great review! Can’t wait to see Boyhood.

  3. I shall look out for these films now. I hadn’t heard of them before. I have recently been watching the reruns of 56 Up, a documentary which started charting the lives of a group of 7 year olds back in the 60s. I think those featured must be around 58 now. I know it’s not a film in the way of ‘Boyhood’, but the whole concept a capturing lives over time is fascinating. I am constantly astonished by moments that remind me of the passing of years and those moments are usually related to my children. At his next birthday, my son will reach the age I was when he was born, which means that from then on, for as long as I live, he will never be less than half my age again. Such a strange feeling …

  4. Tom

    Excellent movie reviews Veronica, and I like how you summarised the disparity that is created over a border. It’s unnerving to say the least. Whenever I look back at my life, especially my 23 years in the military, I have so much to be grateful for. I joined the British Army of my own accord at 17 and had a good career, but in recent times we’ve been seeing a lot of publicity about the war years and the desperate plight of young men, all destined to die because of the time they were born.
    In my latest book, ‘Amsterdam Calling’, which I published yesterday, I bring into play the Holocaust and the Dutch Resistance movement. It’s a modern thriller, but I draw the history into the story to try to engage and educate the reader. We’ll see in time if it works.
    I’m taking a break from writing for a week or two so I’ll be back to check up on your recent posts.

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